Today’s topic is a sensitive subject, but it is one that we deal with on a weekly basis here at Laber of Love. We have to say no many, many times to pets in need at Shelters because we don’t have the funds or the foster homes for all the pets that need us. We also have to say no to individuals who have lost a family member and have nowhere for that family member’s pet to go. Unfortunately, we have to say no to these pets and stay true to our mission, which is dedicated to rescuing pets that have found themselves in Shelters at the end of their lives. We say no to rehoming requests because the person has started a new job, had kids, is moving, and has many other reasons. It is heartbreaking every time we have to say no for the sake of the pet; I would love to live in a world where we can say yes every time. Or better yet, a world where we are no longer needed. However, we currently live in a reality in the pet world where Shelters are overwhelmed. Rescues are overwhelmed.
What can be done? Everyone needs to take responsibility for their pets. They need to spay and neuter; this will stop the endless cycle of unwanted litters, unwanted kittens and puppies. Spaying or neutering a dog or cat is much less expensive than trying to feed and provide Vet care for a litter. It is less stress on a dog or cat than going through pregnancy, birth, and raising their young. It is much less stress on the humans too.
People also need to understand a pet is for life. Not until they move, until they have kids, until they get a new job, until they get married, or until the pet gets too old. When you adopt a pet, you are taking responsibility for a life. Please consider that responsibility and plan for it. I understand that extreme circumstances happen, but everyday life should not get in the way of the responsibility of pet ownership.
Owners also need to plan for what will happen to their pets after they pass away. Will a family member be there to take care of the pet? Will a trusted friend? We have seen so many times where a pet is left alone with no options, and it is heartbreaking to see every time. There are many ways plans for pets can be made along with the other planning that needs to be done. Below is an article that gives more information on how to plan for your pet’s future without you in it.
Please help the Shelter and Rescue community. You can do your part in keeping your pets safe, healthy and with you. Spay and neuter. End this cycle that we are currently in. We are overwhelmed, we are tired, and we cry over your unwanted pets. We cry every time we have to say no to a pet in need, but there is only so much that we can do. We have to be careful to not take on more than we can handle ourselves. We need your help.
Nicole Laber, Cofounder and Fospice Mom